Episode Summary:

In this episode of the Expositors Collective Podcast, we feature a compelling message from Bryan Stupar on the vital role of mentorship in ministry and life. Drawing from his deep well of pastoral experience and biblical understanding, Bryan illustrates the importance of older generations investing in the younger. He weaves together biblical examples—including the ultimate model of Jesus—and classical wisdom from Homer’s Odyssey to provide a rich, multidimensional perspective on mentorship. Whether you're seeking to grow as a mentor or looking to be mentored, this episode will inspire and challenge you to cultivate meaningful, transformative relationships.

Bryan opens by defining mentorship as a relational investment designed to foster intentional growth, aligning closely with the principles of biblical discipleship. He delves into Homer’s Odyssey, highlighting the character Mentor as a timeless example of guidance and wisdom that parallels biblical models. Addressing modern challenges, Bryan underscores how the cultural zeitgeist subtly influences individuals, often mentoring them in ways they might not even realise. He contrasts this with the concept of expressive individualism, which Carl Trueman defines as a cultural emphasis on self-expression and authenticity as the ultimate goals, often at the expense of communal responsibility and growth. Bryan uses Alicia Keyes as a case study to illustrate the pervasive impact of this mindset. Turning to Scripture, Bryan unpacks Jesus’ intentional and humble approach to mentorship, showcasing His unwavering commitment to the growth and development of His disciples. He concludes with a call for listeners to follow Jesus’ example by embracing the dual roles of being mentored and mentoring others, thereby fostering spiritual and personal growth within the Church.

About Bryan Stupar:

Bryan Stupar, born in 1970 and raised in the surf culture of Huntington Beach, California, became a Christian at the age of 15. In 1993, he and his wife, Sherry, moved to San Luis Obispo to plant Calvary SLO Church, now a vibrant and influential ministry on California’s Central Coast. Bryan is a devoted husband, father to two daughters (Brianna and Brooke), and lover of photography, coffee culture, and surfing. His life’s passion is investing in others for the glory of God and the good of the world.

Recommended Episodes: 

John Hwang on Preaching Mentorships: https://cgnmedia.org/podcast/expositors-collective/episode/preaching-mentorships-with-john-hwang-panel-discussion 
Clay Worrell on Preaching Mentorships: https://cgnmedia.org/podcast/expositors-collective/episode/preaching-mentorship-panel-discussion-clay-worrell 
How do I find Someone To Mentor Me? https://cgnmedia.org/podcast/expositors-collective/episode/how-do-i-find-someone-to-mentor-me-panel-discussion-qa 

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