A man's deception about his infertility, abandonment of women with children, and refusal to pay child support is exposed. The podcast delves into the disturbing case, loopholes in the child support system, and the lack of coordination in addressing the consequences.
Deceptive impregnation should be considered a crime to protect women's rights and hold perpetrators accountable.
Improvements in the child support system are necessary to prevent exploitation and ensure non-paying parents fulfill their obligations.
Deep dives
Fertility deception and denial of child support
Neil Lorman is accused of deceiving multiple women, including Tina Meyer, into believing he was infertile, only to abandon them when they became pregnant. Tina Meyer recounts her experience of meeting Lorman, who claimed to have testicular cancer and a past failed marriage due to infertility. However, DNA testing reveals that Lorman is the father of Meyer's child, and he has been refusing to pay child support. Investigative journalist Ben Ellery uncovers multiple similar cases, with Lorman allegedly fathering at least five children. He reportedly evades child support by exploiting the system and cycling between self-employment and benefits. This investigation sheds light on the need to address legal loopholes and improve support for single mothers pursuing child support.
Demand for legal consequences and system reform
Tina Meyer and other women affected by Neil Lorman's actions call for legal consequences for deceiving women about fertility before engaging in intimate relationships. Similar to the offense of reckless transmission of diseases like HIV, they argue that deceptive impregnation should also be considered a crime. The unequal burden on women, who carry the physical, emotional, and financial responsibilities of raising children, is highlighted. The case raises questions about the current child support system, which some perceive as inadequate in ensuring that non-paying parents fulfill their obligations. Calls for improved coordination between benefit agencies and child support services to prevent individuals from exploiting the system are also made.
Personal impacts and pursuit of closure
For Tina Meyer, discovering the truth about Neil Lorman's deceptive behavior has been a difficult journey. However, she has found solace in connecting with other women who have had similar experiences with Lorman. They have formed friendships and a sense of support, giving each other closure and strength. Tina's daughter now has two half-siblings, and they share a loving relationship. Tina's story serves as a reminder of the resilience and determination of single mothers, while also shedding light on the long-lasting impact of deception and the importance of finding a sense of community to heal and move forward.
This story is a disturbing illustration of how one man can seemingly go through life lying to women, abandoning them with children while paying no child support.
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Article: Unmasked: the ‘infertile’ father of multiple children with different womenhttps://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/unmasked-the-infertile-father-of-multiple-children-with-different-women-mg2x5lstf
Guest: Ben Ellery, General News Reporter, The Times.