You Made It Weird with Pete Holmes

We Made It Weird #229

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Oct 3, 2025
In a casual chat, Pete and Valerie dive into the chaos of recording a sizzle reel that failed to capture audio. They emphasize the power of genuine friendship in storytelling, suggesting that vulnerability attracts audiences. Embracing dorkiness and awkward moments becomes a selling point, while they explore millennial earnestness and the discomfort of identity. Insights from their daughter highlight the complexities of love, alongside discussions about emotional clarity and the effects of isolation. They also share behind-the-scenes experiences from filming and the emotional challenges of acting.
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ANECDOTE

Sizzle Reel Fail Becomes Material

  • Valerie and Lisa recorded an 11-minute FaceTime sizzle reel but forgot audio because they screen-recorded each side.
  • They realized later there was no audio and felt humiliated, turning the failure into material for their pitch story.
INSIGHT

Vulnerability Sells Better Than Polish

  • Pete argues vulnerability and authentic rapport often sell shows more than polished pitches.
  • He suggests turning humiliating failures into the show's heart because relationships and dorkiness are compelling.
INSIGHT

Coolness Is A Temporary Shield

  • Pete and Valerie unpack 'being cool' as a temporary shield while people figure themselves out.
  • They say youthful earnestness looks cringe but true authenticity often beats curated coolness.
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