Autism Parenting Secrets DON’T Fall Into the Diagnosis TRAP
Oct 2, 2025
Leland Vittert, an Emmy-nominated journalist and author of *Born Lucky*, shares his inspiring journey with autism and the powerful role his father played in overcoming challenges. He discusses the importance of rejecting diagnosis limitations and fostering resilience through love and hard work. Leland introduces the 'Friendship First' approach, where his father became his trusted companion. He emphasizes caution against over-accommodation, advocating for teaching real-world skills instead. Tune in for insights on fostering growth and the power of incremental changes!
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Acceptance Isn't Passive
- Accepting a child doesn't mean avoiding efforts to help them adapt and grow.
- Leland emphasizes love plus action, not passive acceptance alone.
Dad Became The First Friend
- Leland's dad noticed he had no friends and decided to become his friend to provide connection and safety.
- That father-son friendship became a lifelong bond and foundation for Leland's progress.
Placed With Girls In PE
- In fifth grade Leland was placed with girls in PE because boys bullied him and he couldn't understand them.
- That event highlighted his social struggles long before formal diagnosis was common.
