738: "Perfect" Pastor is a Predatory Disaster | Feedback Friday
Oct 14, 2022
This week, the hosts tackle a shocking moral dilemma involving a predatory pastor who propositions a long-time acquaintance on a hookup app. They explore the emotional complexity of loyalty and accountability in the church community. Listeners also learn to manage their anger and road rage by fostering empathy for other drivers. The discussion includes personal struggles with body image and unrealistic expectations in relationships, emphasizing communication and self-awareness as keys to personal growth.
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Pastor's Grindr Proposition
A gay man receives a proposition from his closeted, married pastor on Grindr.
He struggles with reporting the pastor due to potential fallout for his family and the church.
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What do you do when the very married pastor you've known your whole life as a pillar of the church and community propositions you on LGBTQ hookup app Grindr? You know his wife and kids would be devastated if they knew, but you also know he's vindictive and would likely take any blowback out on your family and their standing in that very same church and community. And if you just do nothing, he's free to prey on other young men without consequence. Welcome to Feedback Friday!
And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!
Busy day with too many things on your to-do list? For each item, ask yourself: "What will happen if I don't do this?" [Thanks to James Clear for clarifying this one!]
What do you do when the very married pastor you've known your whole life as a pillar of the community propositions you on LGBTQ hookup app Grindr? [Thanks to Dr. Kevin Glenn for helping us with this one!]
Is there a more constructive way to spend your commute time than reflecting back — and amplifying — the road rage others inflict on you?
Should you consider getting breast enhancement surgery to feel better about your own body, or reject the idea because it would give the husband who's made you feel inadequate about your natural size — for 20 years — satisfaction he doesn't deserve?
How do you frame the positive — but thoroughly platonic — relationship you have with your ex-wife and the kids you share as a win/win for your jealous fiancée?
Even if there’s no hope or intention of rekindling friendships you abused and took for granted during your less-enlightened college days, is there value in apologizing to those you wronged so long ago?
Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
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