1007: Found Wisdom in Woo-Woo — Am I In a Cult Too? | Feedback Friday
Jun 21, 2024
This week tackles the fine line between growth and manipulation in groups that some label as cults. Listeners question their involvement in a potentially exploitative organization while recognizing personal gains. The conversation then shifts to the complexities of polyamory, addressing boundary issues and emotional betrayal. Additionally, there's a focus on managing familial challenges, with valuable advice for supporting those with disabilities. The hosts blend humor with serious insights, providing thoughtful guidance on navigating these tough topics.
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Modern Mystery School Experience
A listener enjoys the "Modern Mystery School" for its personal growth benefits, despite criticisms of it being a cult.
He's improved his life, doubled income, and built a new community, but questions remain.
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Assessing Group Involvement
Evaluate if an organization's questionable aspects outweigh its benefits and if those benefits can be achieved independently.
Stay connected to your intuition and seek external perspectives to maintain objectivity.
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Identifying Red Flags in Groups
If a group's actions contradict its stated mission, re-evaluate your involvement.
Be wary if leaders prioritize financial gain or claim to be the sole source of wisdom.
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How to Stay Sane in an Era of Narcissism, Entitlement, and Incivility
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This book by Dr. Ramani Durvasula provides an exhaustive examination of narcissism and its impact on relationships, workplaces, families, friendships, and society at large. It explains how narcissism develops, its traits, and how to handle narcissistic individuals. The book is written in a conversational and compassionate tone, making it approachable and informative. Dr. Durvasula offers practical advice on setting boundaries, maintaining empathy, and surviving in a culture increasingly influenced by narcissism and entitlement.
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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:
You've been deeply involved in an organization that's brought you personal growth and success, but some have raised suspicions that it might be a cult. With expensive programs, controversial teachings, and an elitist hierarchy, you wonder if you've gained genuine wisdom or just been skillfully manipulated. What's the truth behind this modern mystery?
You're in an open marriage, but your husband's relationship with another woman has crossed boundaries and is threatening your marital union. She's moved in, turned him against you, and now you're considering legal action. How can you address this situation and potentially save your relationship?
Your sister, who has epilepsy and cognitive disabilities, is turning 18 soon. Her father, your ex-stepfather, has been making questionable decisions about her care and education. How can you protect and support her as she transitions into adulthood?
You were adopted at birth and have always been curious about your biological parents. You've met your birth mother, but she's hesitant to provide information about your birth father. How can you navigate the complex process of searching for your biological father while respecting everyone involved?
Listener Pete Dinnella has sadly left us. His wife Barbara shares the bittersweet details of his final days and we encourage anyone who wants to help her in the aftermath of this tragedy to contribute to their GoFundMe.
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