
The BEMA Podcast 486: Vice & Virtue — Temperance
Nov 20, 2025
Elle Grover Fricks, a contributor on theological insights, joins the hosts to explore the virtue of temperance. They discuss how temperance is about resisting insatiable desires and balancing various aspects of life, from work to hobbies. Key distinctions between temperance and prudence are made, alongside reflections on temperance's role in commitment. Elle highlights the importance of Christlike service in navigating decisions. The conversation concludes with practical tips for cultivating temperance across life, addressing both self-control and community.
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Insatiability Of Excess
- David Foster Wallace shows how extreme pampering fuels insatiable desire and resets our satisfaction baseline upward.
- Temperance counters that insatiability by keeping desires blended and balanced between extremes.
Temperance As Balanced Living
- Temperance is the virtue of keeping appetites and behaviors balanced rather than denying pleasure outright.
- Reed Dent frames temperance as an intrapersonal practice that ripples into community flourishing.
Say No To Protect Margin
- Treat every yes as an opportunity cost and protect margin in your schedule to avoid overcommitment.
- Say no more often so you can hold space for fewer, better commitments.









