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New Books in Psychoanalysis

Neil Vickers and Derek Bolton, "Being Ill: On Sickness, Care and Abandonment" (Reaktion Books, 2024)

Oct 5, 2024
Neil Vickers, a Professor of English literature at King's College London, and Derek Bolton discuss their compelling book on the complex interplay of illness and social relationships. They explore how serious illness alters perceptions and dependencies in our relationships, highlighting feelings of isolation experienced by both the ill and their caregivers. Their interdisciplinary approach emphasizes the importance of community support and connectedness in fostering resilience. They also examine the concept of 'holding' in caregiving, advocating for empathy in the context of illness.
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  • Serious illness significantly alters interpersonal relationships, often leading to isolation for both the ill and their caregivers due to societal discomfort.
  • The authors argue for a biopsychosocial approach, highlighting the necessity of communal support in fostering resilience and improving health outcomes.

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The Interpersonal Experience of Illness

Serious illness extends beyond medical treatment; it profoundly influences the relationships and interactions people have with others. The dynamics of companionship often shift, as individuals may find themselves feeling abandoned during their illness journey, despite gratitude for those who remain close. The authors emphasize that healthy individuals tend to withdraw from those who are ill due to discomfort, societal stigma, or their own coping mechanisms. This isolation can lead to catastrophic outcomes, underscoring the necessity for robust social support in managing serious health conditions.

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