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How Do You Bring Up The Conversation of Prenups

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Nov 24, 2025
Discussing prenuptial agreements can be awkward, but it’s essential for financial security. Discover effective strategies for initiating the conversation respectfully with your partner. Learn how a partner’s reactions can reveal compatibility. Explore the idea that prenups aren't just about money; they also protect sentimental assets and legacies. Shift the focus to mutual protection, ensuring both partners feel valued. This guide helps navigate a sensitive topic with confidence and care.
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ADVICE

Bring Up Prenups Early And Openly

  • Ask about a prenup early by phrasing it as an open question about views on prenups.
  • Use their response to assess compatibility and honesty before committing further.
INSIGHT

Saying You Want One Isn’t The Same As Getting One

  • Many people say they want prenups but few actually have them because they avoid the uncomfortable conversation.
  • Avoiding the topic often comes from fear that legal agreements will 'take the love out' of marriage.
ADVICE

Set Clear Boundaries And Consequences

  • Set relationship boundaries and expectations early, including consequences for repeated breaches.
  • Use clear rules (e.g., 'three strikes') to protect emotional and material investments.
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