The Brian Lehrer Show What is Your Holiday Tipping Etiquette?
Dec 5, 2025
Brian Vines, a Marketplace equity reporter and co-host of the Talking Carts podcast, dives into the nuances of holiday tipping etiquette. He shares insights on who to tip in large buildings and the importance of cash preference, timing, and visibility. Vines advises that heartfelt notes or continued patronage can substitute for cash when funds are tight. He also highlights that tipping is discretionary, allowing flexibility based on satisfaction and gives guidelines for mailing and delivery workers. Tune in for thoughtful advice!
AI Snips
Chapters
Transcript
Episode notes
Cash And Timing Matter
- Give holiday tips in cash rather than gifts or cookies whenever possible.
- Hand over tips before the actual holiday so recipients can use the money immediately.
Tipping Reflects Need And Visibility
- Tipping remains discretionary and reflects both gratitude and ability to pay.
- Building staff often know residents' circumstances and will gauge tips accordingly.
Offer Value Beyond Cash
- If cash isn't possible, offer meaningful alternatives like continued patronage or specific praise.
- Continued business or referrals can be more valuable to some service workers than one-time cash.