

Unspoken Truths of Sexual Attraction | Tom & Lisa Bilyeu
15 snips Nov 2, 2023
Dive into the intriguing world of sexual attraction, where primal instincts meet conscious choices. Discover how attraction evolves with age and the importance of emotional investment in relationships. Explore the balance between caring for partners and acknowledging outside attractions, along with the role of honest communication. The conversation even touches on boosting wellness through cold exposure and the significance of strong, respectful partnerships. Plus, delightful discussions about personal connections add a warm touch to the exploration of love and attraction.
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Dual Nature of Attraction
- Attraction is both primal and conscious, influenced by hardwiring and emotional needs.
- Research suggests women have more flexible sexual responses than men, potentially explaining fluidity in attraction.
Manipulating Attraction
- Tom Bilyeu believes attraction can be consciously influenced by values and emotional investment.
- He suggests intentionally linking emotional responses with sexual arousal to increase attraction.
Lisa's Mom's Journey
- Lisa Bilyeu's mother's shift in attraction demonstrates the potential for change over time.
- After a heterosexual marriage, she found herself in a fulfilling same-sex relationship.