RISK! Do I Belong Here?
Nov 18, 2025
Jen Nails, an experienced improv and acting teacher, shares her struggle with acceptance at a college conservatory, revealing how her classmates rallied to support her when she faced dismissal. Sandy Marks, a comedian and memoirist, humorously recounts a dating mishap, where she pretended to be engaged to her uninteresting boyfriend to appease his wealthy parents. Both stories explore themes of belonging and authenticity amidst pressure to conform.
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Not All Actors Fit The Same Mold
- Jen realized she didn't fit the typical emotionally demonstrative acting mold and resisted performing prescribed sadness.
- She learned that different learners respond to different teaching styles, and authenticity matters more than mimicry.
Weird Al And The Accordion
- Jen performed a lip-sync to Weird Al with a borrowed accordion and intentionally stood out from classmates.
- The stunt didn't land but highlighted her commitment to authenticity over fitting in.
Cast As The Space Freak
- Despite not fitting Ron's favorites, Jen was cast as Willie the Space Freak in a Sam Shepard one-act that she deeply understood.
- That casting affirmed that unconventional roles can reveal a performer's strengths.
