Narcissistic Fathers are entitled and use their family to make them look good. They will cause damage to the children by never allowing them into the spotlight making it all about them. They will bully family members into compliance with a fear and intimidating attitude that makes noncompliance an affront to their authority. Narcissistic fathers cause their family members to feel humiliated and therefore have a low sense of self confidence. It is important to address the wounds experienced and heal. This will take rigorous confrontation with the idealized and perfect light that dad manipulated you to see him in.