Dear Chelsea So Gay For You with Leisha Hailey & Kate Moennig
May 29, 2025
Leisha Hailey and Kate Moennig, celebrated actresses and influential voices from The L Word, dive into their memoir, 'So Gay For You.' They discuss the show's significance through the female gaze and tackle the juicy question of their rumored past romance. The duo also addresses modern relationship dilemmas, like navigating TikTok exes and whether 'lesbian bed death' is a real concern. Their witty banter offers a humorous yet insightful look into love, identity, and the evolution of LGBTQ+ representation in the industry.
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Audition Day Realization
- Leisha Hailey recounts flying from New York to audition for a role in The L Word and instantly recognizing Kate Moennig as her competition by her distinctive hairstyle.
- This moment made her feel the audition was already lost before it even began due to Kate's confident preparation and presence.
The L Word: Female Gaze
- The L Word, though criticized as catering to the male gaze, was actually created and run by women and meant for female perspectives.
- Women can sexualize and objectify each other too, which explains the show's unique female gaze focus.
Master the Word 'No'
- Saying no is a vital skill and a complete sentence that protects your boundaries with confidence.
- Leisha Hailey noted that she has been teaching Kate Moennig to say no effectively for a long time, embracing its power.
