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Breakups and Relationships With Coach Craig Kenneth M.A.

Breakups and Oxytocin

Jan 4, 2024
This podcast discusses the science of breakups and how they impact our biology. It explores the role of oxytocin in breakups, including its connection to relationship interest, depression, and the chances of getting back together. The episode also provides tips on how to boost oxytocin without falling in love and discusses how giving gifts or making donations during a breakup can release oxytocin. It ends with a promotion of personal coaching services and Skype hugs for support.
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Quick takeaways

  • Oxytocin levels increase during a breakup when one partner perceives less interest from the other, potentially as an attempt to salvage the relationship, but once it becomes clear that the relationship won't work out, oxytocin levels drop, leading to feelings of depression.
  • Boosting oxytocin levels through activities such as gazing into a dog's eyes or hugging someone can reduce stress, improve immune functioning, provide cardiovascular stress reduction, and enhance the immune system, which can help provide comfort during a breakup.

Deep dives

Breakups and Oxytocin

When going through a breakup, your body experiences physiological responses that impact how you feel. Research from the Norwegian University of Science and Technology reveals that oxytocin, also known as the cuddle chemical, plays a significant role during breakups. While oxytocin is traditionally associated with strengthening relationships, it also increases when one partner perceives less interest from the other, potentially trying to salvage the relationship. However, once it becomes clear that the relationship won't work out, oxytocin levels drop, leading to feelings of depression. Oxytocin can be boosted through activities such as gazing into your dog's eyes or hugging someone, which not only increases oxytocin but also reduces stress and improves immune functioning.

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