
Big Ideas Coming Out and Inviting In — with Zoe Terakes, Nina Oyama, Mon Schafter, Atari Metcalf, Ji Wallace
Nov 24, 2025
Nina Oyama, an Australian comedian and writer, shares her journey with bisexuality and how she integrates her identity into her stand-up comedy. Olympic silver medallist Ji Wallace discusses the resilience behind coming out publicly as HIV positive. Actor Zoe Terakes highlights the importance of trans visibility in the entertainment industry while Dr. Atari Metcalf emphasizes the need for inclusive healthcare practices. Together, they tackle representation, the impact of political climates, and the personal nature of coming out.
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Early Crush Led To Public Coming Out
- Nina first realised she was bisexual at 13 after a crush at her all-girls school and kept it private for years.
- She later came out onstage during stand-up and felt immense relief and connection with audiences.
Medical Transition As A Turning Point
- Atari recalled childhood dysphoria and decades-long exploration before starting testosterone at 22.
- Accessing gender-affirming care transformed their sense of self and daily life profoundly.
Broaden LGBTQ Topics In Medical Training
- Atari noted medical education often narrows LGBTQ health to HIV, missing broader needs and reinforcing stereotypes.
- Integrating diverse LGBTQ scenarios into case-based learning improves cultural safety and real care.

