Attraction Mastery Secrets - Flirting For Fun & Profit (11-13-23 Part 2)

In "Attraction Mastery Secrets - Flirting for Fun & Profit Part 2," Dr. David Snyder explores the psychological and physiological aspects of attraction and social interactions. Dr. David talks about the importance of self-awareness in attracting a soulmate, the role of body language and energy in personal state control, the psychology of dating, and gender differences in socialization and dating. He also delves into techniques for improving emotional states, using empathy and neuroscience in social interactions, and strategies for enhancing charisma and influence.

Throughout the episode, Dr. David emphasizes the significance of ethical practices, managing one's emotional state, and employing psychological techniques to forge deeper connections and achieve desired social outcomes.

Standout Quotes:

• "It's about finding out who you are and what makes you happy. Become that within yourself, so that you're not running around looking for somebody else to do it for you." - Dr. David Snyder
• "Your physiology controls your psychology, so change your body feelings to influence your state." - Dr. David Snyder
• "The fastest way to change another person's body feelings is to change yours first." - Dr. David Snyder
• "If you want this ability, it is a superpower. Believe me, if there was a Jedi skill set planet, David and we got some really cool stuff." - Dr. David Snyder
• "The more times you use their language, the more attention you get. And the more they start hanging on your every word, the more they talk." - Dr. David Snyder
• "The reason we call it the game is because if you treat it like a game, you don't take it as seriously. Which is the first thing you have to do if you want to be attractive." - Dr. David Snyder
• "If you don't enjoy spending time with somebody, you'll never find out how loyal they are. You will stick around, you'll never find out how intelligent they are many times." - Dr. David Snyder

Key Takeaways:

• Be self-aware of the templates and familiarity patterns that influence your attractions.
• Control your emotional state through power poses, specific postures, and mindful breathing.
• Understand gender differences in socialization and body language cues, and build rapport through mirroring techniques such as echo.
• Embody confident identities, treat social interactions like a game, and prioritize enjoyment over checklists when dating.
• Use your physiology to control your psychology, and use strong positive states to influence the feelings of others, as emotions are contagious.
• As an empath, learn to separate your emotions from those of others using questions like "Is this mine?".
• Practice emotional management by relabeling sensations and getting in and out of emotional states like an actor while treating people respectfully using influence techniques.

Episode Timeline:

• [02:31] – How can neurological and psychosocial processes be utilized to improve relationships and achieve desired outcomes?
• [05:00] – How does David link physiology to psychology in controlling one's feelings?
• [12:12] – What fears do men and women face when dating and approaching each other?
• [16:15] – What are the differences in social radar between men and women?
• [18:59] – How does the concept of "projection" lead to misunderstandings in social contexts?
• [24:53] – How does being playful and relaxed affect negotiation and connection?
• [31:58] – Why is being in the right psycho-emotional state important before interacting with others?
• [37:21] – What importance does David place on body language and state in the context of flirting?
• [42:12] – How does David teach the importance of state control through posture, breathing, and emotional states?
• [47:38] – In what ways does David suggest treating social expectations and rejection as a game?
• [51:28] – Why should you prioritize fun over checklist items in dating?

Learn more about Dr. David Snyder at:

• Website: http://www.davidsnyder.com/
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-david-snyder-02aa23213/