College Admission Consulting For High Schoolers With Alice Chen
Oct 10, 2024
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Alice Chen, founder of BrightStory Admission Consulting, shares her journey as a daughter of immigrants who attended Stanford and transitioned from journalism to education consulting. She explores the rising trend of college admission consulting, emphasizing the balance between academic success and mental health. Alice dives into the challenges of educational choices, the roots of inequality in admissions, and the importance of personal values. She advocates for supporting children's emotional development while navigating their aspirations for prestigious colleges.
Engaging with college consulting services early, ideally from middle school, can help students create a well-rounded profile showcasing their unique contributions.
Balancing academic achievement with mental health is crucial, as parents should foster environments that encourage open communication and support children’s passions.
Deep dives
The Evolving Value of College
The episode discusses the shifting perceptions surrounding the value of a college education, particularly in light of rising tuition costs and economic uncertainties. The speaker emphasizes the importance of making college admissions a two-way relationship, where students present unique contributions or products like apps or inventions that showcase their initiative. A successful example shared involves a student who reached out for guidance and was able to pivot from expressing ambition in creating a company to showcasing a developed prototype aimed at addressing global warming. This reframing of personal narratives demonstrates how students can better align their strengths with what colleges are seeking.
The Importance of Early Preparation
The timeline for engaging with college consulting services is highlighted, suggesting that families start the process early, ideally in middle school. While early engagement can offer advantages, the speaker stresses the importance of preserving children's mental health during this formative time. By the freshman year of high school, students should focus on establishing solid grades while also exploring personal interests through passion projects. This long-term preparation creates a more holistic profile that colleges find attractive, integrating both academics and authentic personal experiences.
Navigating Public vs. Private Education
The episode also tackles the debate over whether public or private high school is more beneficial for college admissions. The speaker notes that while private schools may offer abundant resources and opportunities, public schools can foster a unique competitive environment where students may stand out. The choice between the two often depends on family values and the individual child's strengths, as both educational paths can lead to success. Ultimately, the speaker suggests that educational backgrounds alone cannot determine college admission outcomes, as many factors contribute to a student’s profile.
Addressing Pressure and Mental Health
The pressures surrounding academic achievement, especially in competitive environments, are candidly addressed throughout the conversation. The speaker shares personal insights about the anxiety experienced by students in high-pressure communities, linking these issues to larger mental health concerns. It's suggested that parents foster environments promoting mental well-being while also encouraging their children's passions. By modeling healthy behaviors and encouraging open communication, parents can mitigate the intense pressures often associated with striving for top colleges.
If you have children, you likely want to provide them with the best education possible, which may include helping them get into a top college. Along the way, you may come across college consulting services and wonder how beneficial they really are.
Alice is a daughter of immigrants and grew up in the Boston area. Alice’s father was a research scientist and her mother an auditor, so Alice grew up thinking that those who studied and worked the hardest would succeed.
But after attending Stanford and working in TV journalism, Alice quickly learned that IQ was not the most important factor for workplace (and life) success.
Alice created BrightStory to offer the mentoring she wishes she had as a teen. Alice also created Happy Asian Woman, a newsletter focused on wellness and living a meaningful life, and she incorporates these values into her coaching work.
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