In this live SAND Community Gathering (January 2025), SAND co-founders Maurizio and Zaya Benazzo welcome Darcia Narvaez, professor emeritus of psychology at the University of Notre Dame, to discuss her interdisciplinary research on evolved morality, child development, and human flourishing. Narvaez shares insights from her book, The Evolved Nest, and explores the impact of modern parenting practices, the benefits of communal child-rearing, and the neurological and emotional development of children. The discussion also holds space for the importance of nature immersion, indigenous practices, and the detrimental effects of trauma on development. The episode concludes with practical tips for parents and communities to foster a nurturing environment based on centuries-old wisdom.

Topics

00:00 Introduction and Welcome

00:46 Guest Introduction: Darcia Narvaez

02:14 Darcia's Journey and Early Influences

05:32 The Concept of the Evolved Nest

08:34 Modern Birth Practices and Their Impact

14:08 Parenting and Child Development in Indigenous Communities

16:36 The Role of Community in Child Rearing

19:52 Education and Learning: Western vs. Indigenous Approaches

27:54 The Impact of Trauma in Modern and Natural Worlds

28:42 The Impact of Early Trauma on Male Elephants

29:04 Developmental Needs of Young Males

29:52 The Role of Older Males in Elephant Social Structure

30:43 Human Development and Mentorship

31:16 The Importance of Multi-Aged Groups

32:01 Rites of Passage and Ceremonial Transitions

33:03 Vertical and Horizontal Connectedness

34:10 The Influence of Christianity and Patriarchy

35:08 Creation Spirituality and Indigenous Worldview

36:05 The Evolved Nest and Modern Parenting

37:15 The Role of Community in Child Development

39:39 The Importance of Nature and Healing Practices

46:17 Learning from Octopus Intelligence

48:04 Restoring the Kinship Worldview

51:05 Conclusion and Call to Action

Resources

The Evolved Nest (website)

The Evolved Nest: Nature's Way of Raising Children and Creating Connected Communities (book)

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