The Jordan Harbinger Show 321: How to Ask for Advice | Deep Dive
Mar 5, 2020
Gabriel Mizrahi, a seasoned writer and advice guru, dives deep into the art of asking for advice. He highlights the importance of clarity and specificity in requests, helping us distinguish between genuine queries and mere validation-seeking. The conversation explores common pitfalls, the emotional barriers to accepting guidance, and the role of preparation in effective advice-seeking. Mizrahi also emphasizes the value of sincere follow-ups, making advice a two-way street that fosters deeper connections and personal growth.
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Clothing Line Dream
- Jordan Harbinger recounts advising a listener on Instagram about starting a clothing line.
- The listener rejected the advice and later blamed Harbinger for telling him to give up on his dream.
Validation vs. Advice
- People often seek validation rather than actual advice.
- They ask for guidance but reject anything that challenges their plans.
Be Specific
- Be specific and intentional about what advice you need.
- Avoid vague requests and focus on practical questions.