Evolutionary psychologist Diana Fleischman discusses the reasons why women find things disgusting and explores the motivations behind women getting breast implants. The podcast also touches on topics such as toddlers trying to prevent the birth of siblings, female sex drive, body modifications like butt implants, age gap relationships, and the speaker's profession and upcoming book.
Plastic surgery, like breast implants, has created a prolonged period of maidenhood throughout a woman's lifespan, emphasizing attractiveness and social status.
Transitioning for boys can be influenced by feminine peer groups and progressive partners, offering acceptance and social status within certain circles.
Plastic surgery, including breast implants, can enhance a woman's physical appeal and increase attractiveness, but the extent to which it is an evolutionary adaptation is debatable.
Deep dives
Plastic surgery and evolutionary adaptation
Plastic surgery, particularly breast implants and butt implants, can be seen as an attempt to prolong attractiveness and maintain social status. While women may seek breast implants to please men, there are also cases of lesbians opting for breast implants. Plastic surgery has created an extended period of maidenhood throughout the entire lifespan, where being hot and desirable is emphasized. However, calling it an evolutionary adaptation is debatable, as modern plastic surgery often alters appearance in unrealistic ways.
The influence of social networks on transitioning
There are cases of boys who transition due to being in feminine peer groups, where they seek the approval of girls. This can also occur when boys are in relationships with progressive partners who encourage the transition. The desire for acceptance and social status can lead to the adoption of a trans identity, which offers a sense of dignity within certain social circles.
Plastic surgery and female attractiveness
Plastic surgery, such as breast implants and Brazilian butt lifts, can enhance a woman's physical appeal and increase attractiveness to potential partners. Women may undergo these procedures to feel more desirable, both for themselves and for others. Factors like waist-to-hip ratio and fat deposits can influence perceptions of attractiveness and fertility. However, the extent to which plastic surgery is an evolutionary adaptation remains a topic of debate.
The impact of habituation on sexual desire and monogamous relationships
The podcast episode discusses the concept of habituation in the context of sexual desire and monogamous relationships. It explores the idea that women may have a lower sex drive compared to men, and this can lead to a decrease in desire over time. The discussion delves into the challenges faced by individuals who feel obligated to have sex in order to maintain their relationships, even when they no longer feel the same level of desire. Various factors that can contribute to reduced sexual desire in women, such as childbirth and lactation, are also mentioned. The episode highlights the importance of understanding these dynamics in order to navigate the complexities of sexual relationships.
Identity labels and the impact on sexual experiences
The podcast episode touches upon the concept of identity labels, such as demisexual and non-binary, and their correlation with changing societal attitudes towards relationships and sexuality. The discussion considers how these labels can serve as coping mechanisms or ways for individuals to navigate social expectations and norms surrounding sex. It also explores the potential influence of age gaps in relationships, with a focus on middle-aged women opposing age gap relationships between older men and younger women. The episode raises questions about the role of personal autonomy and bodily freedom in shaping individual choices related to relationships, gender identity, and sexuality.
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Diana Santos Fleischman PhD is an evolutionary psychologist and Associate Research Professor at the University of New Mexico. You can follow her on Twitter at @sentientist. She’s currently writing a book called “How to Train Your Boyfriend.” You can also follow her on Substack.
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