Inner Cosmos with David Eagleman Ep136 "Why do we care about mattering?" with Rebecca Goldstein
Jan 12, 2026
In this engaging discussion, philosopher and author Rebecca Goldstein dives into the concept of 'mattering'—the fundamental human need to feel significant. She explores how mattering underpins happiness, ambition, and even depression, linking unmet desires for significance to broader societal issues like polarization and extremism. Goldstein presents strategies for realizing one's mattering, illustrates with stories like that of Scott Joplin, and offers advice for individuals struggling to find their sense of worth. A thought-provoking conversation on what it truly means to matter!
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Mattering Is A Primary Human Drive
- Rebecca Goldstein argues that the deep human drive is a longing to be deserving of attention, which she calls the mattering instinct.
- This instinct can be stronger than survival and shapes motivations like pleasure, truth, and achievement.
Mattering Means Being Deserving Of Attention
- Goldstein defines mattering as being deserving of attention and links it to values and normative claims.
- She says people will even sacrifice their lives if they feel they cannot fulfill their mattering instinct.
William James Found Purpose In A Mattering Project
- William James fell into deep depression until he found a mattering project combining psychology and philosophy.
- Finding that niche restored his energy and sense of purpose.
