Disruptors RANT: What ‘Can’t’ Really Means (Explicit) [Business, mindset, entrepreneur, disruptors]
Is there something you really want to achieve but somebody is telling you that you can’t? Or perhaps you’re telling yourself that? Well, learn today what the word ‘can’t’ really means; how when someone tells you that you can’t, they really mean they don’t want you to. As well as discovering how the word can’t is a projection of your inner fears and failings when in reality you CAN do anything.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
- The reality is, when someone says to you ‘you can’t’ what they actually mean is ‘they don’t want you to.’ Just because someone doesn’t want you to or doesn’t know how to do something, this does not mean you can’t or you shouldn’t.
- When you say to yourself that you can't do something, in reality, you don’t know how yet, or you have a secondary gain or ulterior motive for saying ‘I can’t’. For example, if you say that you ‘can’t leave your job’ your goal for saying this, is to protect you from failure, to keep you safe because if you say you can, you risk failure.
- To embrace ridicule, rejection, insignificance and criticism is to take the action, to have the ‘can do’ attitude, to grow, to scale and to create impact. Be very careful when you trap yourself when you say ‘I can’t because of…’ this is an illusion when in reality you can do anything.
- All the decisions that people are making that are keeping them small and insignificant are all based on what we believe other people will think about us. The courage to be selfish and then disassociating from the need to please others is where your true mission and message lies.
- Accountability is vital for results and in reality, you can do anything you wish to achieve and when people say you can't, remember it is a manifestation and projection of their own fears and failings as well as meaning they don’t know how, and if you don’t know-how, this should send signals to your brain that you can and are able to learn how.
BEST MOMENTS
“‘This word ‘can’t’ can be very destructive.”
“Saying I can’t give you safety and comfort and security”
“The 'can’t' will disappear and the cans appear when you say to yourself ‘what would I do if there was no ridicule and no judgement and no fear. How big would you dream?”
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ABOUT THE HOST
Rob Moore is an author of 9 business books, 5 UK bestsellers, holds 3 world records for public speaking, entrepreneur, property investor, and property educator. Author of the global bestseller “Life Leverage” Host of UK’s No.1 business podcast “Disruptors”
“If you don't risk anything, you risk everything”
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