The Chase Jarvis LIVE Show Brené Brown: The Quest For True Belonging
Belonging Is Internal And Paradoxical
- Belonging is carried inside you, not negotiated with others.
- True belonging combines being part of something and the courage to stand alone.
Sorted Tribes, Rising Loneliness
- We're more ideologically sorted yet lonelier than decades ago.
- Loneliness now predicts early death more than smoking or obesity.
Be In Community And Expect Solitude
- Join a creative community but prepare to stand alone at times.
- Use your creative courage to hold community and solitude simultaneously.
Brené now holds the record for the most cjLIVE appearances, this being her third time on the show. She is a vulnerability and empathy expert and has one of the most watched TED Talks of all time on the subject and is the author of four New York Times best selling books, one of which, Daring Greatly, is my playbook for staying creative and true to myself. Her new book, Braving the Wilderness: The Quest for True Belonging and the Courage to Stand Alone, has come out at a time where we need it most with our world being as divisive and disconnected as it is, it's giving us the tools and ideas to use our unique skills to help connect with each other.
Like in our past episodes, we quickly go deep in this conversation. Brené drops bombs about the importance of connection and how to use your art and creativity to get there. We talk about power of paradox and you need to look no further than the paradox of her no bullshit Texan way of communicating her vulnerabilities as a paradox in itself. It was so refreshing to break down boundaries with Brené again after a year- hope you enjoy the interview as much as I do.
In today's episode:
We talk about how divisive times are good breeding grounds for good art and how that art may be just what we need to form stronger connections between us. Art can save us.
Brené has such a unique way of talking about valuing your work. Have a strong back and a soft front. We talk about how to set boundaries around your worth and communicate that value without being a jerk.
Everything in this episode comes down to taking the reigns on your brain. You will learn about and tactics on how to use your intellect to your advantage, especially when your lizard brains wants to take over.
Enjoy!
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