Experience of attending a DBT program and sharing mental health experiences online. Writing about difficult times and the challenge of conveying personal story. Reflections on identity and the power of shared pain. Planning an event and joking about awards.
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Sharing personal struggles can lead to a sense of connection and purpose, challenging the belief of being a bad person.
Emotional sensitivity is not a flaw but a unique aspect of humanity that should be embraced and valued.
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Finding a Sense of Connection and Purpose through Sharing Pain
In this episode, the podcast explores how the act of sharing personal struggles and pain with others can lead to a sense of connection and purpose. The host shares their experience of uploading a video documenting their time in a hospital, which serves as a way to make sense of their experiences and reduce the shame associated with it. Sharing their story online inadvertently turns them into an advocate, leading campaigns for increased funding for mental health services. Through this process, the host realizes that their experiences are not as unusual as they thought and that campaigns for change can help challenge the belief that they are a bad person. This newfound sense of purpose and belonging has a profound impact on their perspective and emotional sensitivity.
Discovering a Different Perspective on Emotional Sensitivity
In this episode, the podcast delves into the topic of emotional sensitivity and challenges the perception that it is a negative trait. The host attends a course called Intentional Peer Support and meets a trainer who talks about experiences of self-harm and madness in terms of shame rather than illness. This perspective resonates with the host, leading them to question the traditional approach to mental health and seek a different definition of themselves. They come to realize that emotional sensitivity is not a flaw or a condition to be fixed, but rather a unique and valuable aspect of their humanity. This new understanding empowers them to create a space for others to embrace their own emotional sensitivity.
Creating a Safe Space for People with Big Feelings
In this episode, the podcast introduces the concept of the Big Feels Club, a safe space for individuals who identify as having big feelings. The host and their friend, Graham, start hosting gatherings in their living room for people to discuss their experiences with emotions openly. The club grows rapidly, expanding to different locations and even online. The host describes the joy and sense of accomplishment that comes with creating a space where people can feel comfortable discussing their emotions without judgment or shame. This endeavor becomes part of their larger mission to challenge societal norms around emotions and provide support for those who have often been made to feel too much or too sensitive.