The New Age Sage Podcast #89 - The TRUTH About Open Relationships: Is Monogamy Still the Better Way?
Dec 18, 2024
Diving into the complexities of open relationships, the discussion challenges the notion that monogamy is merely a social construct. It critiques polyamory and explores how commitment fosters deeper love and intimacy. The impact of non-monogamy on societal structures, especially on children's stability, is a focal point. Listeners will engage with ideas about the true essence of freedom in love, the role of sacrifice, and the importance of solving relationship challenges rather than outsourcing needs. It's a thought-provoking exploration of intimacy and societal norms.
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Monogamy As A Social Stabilizer
- Lucas Salame argues monogamy is a necessary social construct that supports stable societies and father involvement.
- He warns normalizing polyamory risks men prioritizing hedonistic impulses and harming social stability.
Freedom Through Sacrifice
- Lucas contrasts two freedoms: immediate hedonistic freedom and freedom through sacrifice that yields greater long-term liberty.
- He argues true romantic freedom comes from sacrificing impulses to build a lasting union.
Commitment Forces Deeper Intimacy
- Lucas claims commitment deepens love because removing escape routes forces partners to resolve conflicts together.
- He says polyamory provides exits that prevent deep problem-solving and intimacy growth.
