Picking up where we left off with Courtney and rejection.

— (1:46) The protection from vulnerability and transactional nature of relationships is true for all of us / But it’s more true for rejection types
— (3:24) The different flavors of separateness and intensity of the rejection types
— (8:21) How John and Courtney experience rejection in relationships as frustration and attachment types
— (14:21) How rejection types can redefine their self-concept in less narrow terms by sensing the automatic wall in the body
— (20:20) How to distinguish the not there-ness of rejection vs the not being there of 9
— (23:20) Rejection type possession sweeps you up with intensity because it has such a small aperture of personhood
— (27:38) How rejection types can work with the sensation of the wall and widen their sense of personhood
— (34:34) Rejection types need to revisit vulnerable parts they have cut off in order to avoid becoming more fractional as time goes on
— (41:08) Niklas’ interview with Josh and getting a 2’s perspective on rejection

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