The Rational Male

The black pill is NOT the red pill

Jan 2, 2026
They debate emotion versus reason in modern masculinity and why composure matters in public confrontations. They unpack cultural shifts shaping young men and argue for tougher mentorship and discipline. Evolutionary psychology topics include the dark triad, female mate choice patterns, and how status and deception shape short‑term versus long‑term attraction.
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INSIGHT

Different Cognitive Priorities By Sex

  • Men and women process information differently: men prioritize instinct and reason then emotion, while women prioritize instinct and emotion then reason.
  • Rollo argues conditioning boys as defective girls flips this order and produces emotional, rudderless men.
ANECDOTE

Jack Murphy Storms Off During Interview

  • Rollo describes Jack Murphy's appearance on a show where a 2015 article provoked Murphy to storm off mid‑broadcast.
  • He uses that event to illustrate how men trained toward emotional expression can lose state control under provocation.
ADVICE

Control Emotion; Use Masculine Reasoning

  • Give yourself permission to be a man and think in masculine terms when analyzing relationships.
  • Prioritize clear reasoning over emotional reactivity in public debates or interviews.
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