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The Learn to Love Podcast
Ep 3: Why You Will Choose the Wrong Person with Jourdan Blue
Apr 20, 2020
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Jourdan Blue discusses why individuals often choose the wrong partner in relationships. Topics include analyzing divorce rates, navigating relationship challenges, impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships, and choosing the right partner for a strong relationship.
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- Choosing partners based on childhood love patterns, perpetuates unhealthy dynamics.
- Childhood attachment styles impact adult relationships and contribute to repetitive patterns.
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Understanding the Amago Relationship Pattern
People often seek partners who reflect the love patterns witnessed in childhood. The Amago theory suggests that individuals hold onto past experiences of love, comparing new relationships to their childhood definitions of love. The tendency to pursue partners who match these familiar patterns can lead to relationships that confirm existing beliefs rather than challenging them. Thus, understanding and recognizing these patterns can illuminate why certain dynamics feel 'right' despite being unhealthy or inconsistent.
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