Abdullah Oduro How to know when to LEAVE your Marriage - brutally honest advice
Sep 26, 2025
The discussion opens with the idea that leaving a marriage can sometimes be the honorable choice. Listeners learn the importance of seeking both human counsel and spiritual guidance before making major decisions. Abdullah highlights serious issues like persistent harm to faith, mental health, and repeated infidelity as justifiable reasons for separation. The conversation also covers the necessity of counseling and the challenges of sexual rights within marriage. It's a candid exploration of boundaries and the importance of prioritizing well-being.
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Leaving Can Be An Act Of Honor
- Staying in a damaging marriage can destroy your mental, physical, and spiritual well-being over time.
- Walking away can be honorable and preserve your deen and sanity.
Seek Istikhara And Trusted Counsel First
- Do istikhara (seek Allah's guidance) and seek trusted counsel before making major decisions.
- Prioritize spiritual guidance but also consult respected, knowledgeable people when needed.
Protect Mental And Religious Well‑Being
- If a spouse persistently mocks religion or undermines your mental health, seriously consider leaving after istikhara and counsel.
- Protect yourself before harm escalates to depression or suicidal thoughts.