Coach Corey Wayne

Why She Chose The Other Guy After Dumping You

Apr 14, 2025
Explore the emotional chaos that unfolds when an ex moves on with someone new. A young man's struggle with his unresolved feelings leads to insights about the challenges of chasing after love that’s already gone. The necessity of self-control and the importance of establishing no-contact rules for healing are discussed. Additionally, the focus shifts to self-awareness and personal growth, emphasizing how learning from past mistakes can pave the way for healthier future relationships.
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ADVICE

Stop Pursuing, Let Her Initiate

  • Stop pursuing a woman who dumped you, especially if she's seeing someone else.
  • Let her do 100% of the pursuing after she unilaterally changes the relationship terms.
ADVICE

Dating Strategy After No Contact

  • If your ex initiates contact after no contact, invite her over for dinner three times in a row.
  • Only then can you meet her out, but ensure she still does all the pursuing.
INSIGHT

Monkey Branching

  • By continuing to pursue an ex while she's dating someone else, you make it easy for her to fully move on.
  • This facilitates "monkey branching" and solidifies her bond with the new guy.
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