Wordslut: Sexist Language + How it Shapes Us: with Linguist Amanda Montell
Jan 26, 2023
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Linguist and writer Amanda Montell discusses the power of language, reclaiming gendered insults, and sexism in our language. She explores the innovation of language by young women, the historical evolution of slurs against women, and the connection between language and power. Montell also emphasizes the importance of reading the room when it comes to language and the power of reclaiming words versus abolishing them.
Language is a powerful tool that shapes culture and influences individuals' experiences.
Reclaiming and redefining words can empower marginalized communities and reshape language.
Deep dives
The Power of Language
Language is crucial both internally and externally. Internally, it shapes our thoughts and self-perception. Externally, language is the basis of culture, communication, and social norms. It can build or tear down individuals and even nations. The uniqueness of each language influences how we experience life and shapes our behaviors. Different languages have different ways of expressing concepts and values. For example, Japanese culture emphasizes humility through various forms of politeness and speech. Language also evolves with societal changes and marginalized communities often use language as a form of power and expression. The importance of language lies in its ability to empower and represent individuals.
The Influence of Language on Culture
Language plays a crucial role in shaping culture. It is the means through which people communicate, build relationships, and create social norms. Each language has its own unique characteristics and influences how individuals experience life. For example, German language use relates to punctuality and efficiency, which is reflected in cultural norms. Words and phrases in a language can shape a sense of humor, as seen in Yiddish and Jewish humor. Additionally, language can be inclusive or exclusive, impacting social dynamics and perpetuating stereotypes. Language carries the power to build or dismantle cultural structures.
Reclaiming and Redefining Words
Language evolves, and words can be reclaimed or redefined to empower marginalized communities. Terms that were once slurs can be embraced by these communities as a means of empowerment and in-group solidarity. Reclaiming words is a way to reshape language and create positive associations. However, the process of reclamation is subjective, and individuals may have different reactions to certain words. The aim is to use language consciously and create a sense of empowerment, representation, and acceptance.
The Linguistic Double Bind for Women
Women face a linguistic double bind in public discourse, as they are judged for not conforming to masculine authority or for not embodying traditional femininity. Society's expectations for women and the attributes associated with power clash with each other. Women who strive to assert authority may be labeled negatively, while those who exhibit traditionally feminine traits are deemed unfit to lead. The linguistic expectations placed on women limit their ability to freely express themselves and contribute to societal dialogues.
LANGUAGE + POWER, GENDER, RACE: Linguist and writer Amanda Montell is here to discuss reclaiming gendered insults, cursing, women's linguistic innovation, sexism in our language and owning your own voice. She is the author of two critically acclaimed books, Wordslut: A Feminist Guide to Taking Back the English Language and Cultish: The Language of Fanaticism She is also a creator and host of the hit podcast, Sounds Like A Cult. Today she joins PRETTYSMART to expand on her book Wordslut. She wants you to feel empowered by language instead of silenced by it.
She shares:
Why young women are the language innovators.
Slurs and how so many of them were once ordinary words used to reflect femininity.
How culture and language go hand in hand.
Why marginalized communities use language as a form of power in culture (and why it is almost always co-opted by mainstream society).
Why we need to stop calling out typos and grammar mistakes online.
What it really means when we have to put a qualifier on a word.
What term we can use instead of “hey guys” and why it’s important to read the room when it comes to language.
The power of reclaiming words vs. abolishing them.