The Financial Confessions Being Single Isn't Scary. The Wrong Marriage Is. | Just Getting Good
Oct 23, 2025
A candid conversation reveals Anita's journey through financial infidelity and divorce after 24 years of marriage. She shares how early investing and consistent saving helped her retire in her 50s, and the pivotal moments that led her to rebuild her wealth after loss. With insights on relationships, aging, and money as freedom, Anita emphasizes the importance of financial independence. Her story highlights the power of friendship and self-care, offering valuable advice for women navigating life changes.
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Discovery That Ended A 24-Year Marriage
- Anita describes discovering a credit card opened in her name and confronting her husband, which revealed $137,000 of hidden debt.
- She says she left the marriage the same day and finalized divorce within six months.
Post‑Divorce Tax Fraud Reveal
- After divorce Anita learned her ex had committed tax fraud by not reporting 401(k) distributions on joint returns.
- She refused to pay and forced him to clear debts using credit cards instead of letting the IRS freeze her assets.
Get Legal Help And Protect Separate Assets
- When extricating from a marriage, secure legal help quickly and protect separate assets.
- Aim to walk away with your assets and none of the dissipated marital debt.