The Ramsey Show Highlights

Dump My Girlfriend Because She Doesn't Have A Lot Of Money?

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Oct 19, 2025
A caller grapples with whether to stay with his girlfriend due to financial differences after five years of dating. Their contrasting money-driven attitudes spark a lively discussion. As they analyze income disparities and values, Dave emphasizes the importance of character over cash when making long-term commitments. Pre-marriage counseling is recommended as a way to align financial habits and goals. The conversation ultimately reveals how money behavior can unveil deeper relationship truths.
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ANECDOTE

Five-Year Relationship And Money Worry

  • The caller describes a five-year relationship with a hardworking small-business owner who worries about financial mismatch.
  • He admires her character but frets about income disparity and moving in together.
INSIGHT

Income Alone Isn’t The Core Issue

  • George and Dave note the income gap here is modest and not an automatic dealbreaker.
  • They emphasize respect for character and work ethic matters far more than raw income.
ADVICE

Get Counseling And Study Money Backgrounds

  • Dave recommends pre-marriage counseling to air fears and understand money backgrounds.
  • He also suggests reading Rachel Cruze's Know Yourself, Know Your Money to explore money stories.
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