Sometimes “just be gracious” is really code for “don’t rock the boat.” But when grace gets twisted into silence, avoidance, or fear, it stops looking like Jesus.

In this episode, we’re talking about the quiet damage that happens when harmful behavior is tolerated in the name of patience or peace.

What do you do when you’re not in charge but can’t ignore the dysfunction? Let’s get real about boundaries, truth, and the courage to speak up in love.

What You’ll Hear:

Why avoidance often gets mislabeled as grace in small church culture
The difference between strong personalities and destructive behavior
What it looks like to protect others without overstepping leadership
Simple language and actions that help you draw healthy lines
Encouragement to stay spiritually healthy—even when your church isn’t

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189: When “Grace” Protects Bullies: How We Confuse Avoidance With Christlikeness