Freedomain with Stefan Molyneux

6251 I WANT EIGHT+ KIDS! CALL IN SHOW

Jan 5, 2026
A young man in his late twenties dreams of a large family but grapples with marriage fears and financial concerns. He shares how childhood experiences shaped his views on relationships and parenting. With a goal of eight to ten children, he discusses the logistics of housing and living costs, reflecting on the realities of raising a big family. Stefan highlights the importance of financial credibility and actively dating to find the right partner. The conversation delves into practicalities of marriage, child support, and overcoming personal barriers to achieve this family dream.
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ANECDOTE

Early Accusation And Parental Divorce

  • The caller recounts a childhood incident where a girl falsely accused him at age five, shaping distrust of women.
  • He also reports parental divorce and his father leaving, which contributed to his fears and avoidance.
ADVICE

Fix Dating Gaps Before Big Promises

  • Do address gaps in your social and dating experience before asking someone to risk a large family with you.
  • Stefan warns that lack of relationships signals you have no one intervening to help you grow and undermines credibility.
ADVICE

Move Out To Signal Independence

  • Do stop living in your childhood home if you want to be seen as independent by prospective partners.
  • Stefan explains living with parents signals lack of independence and reduces attractiveness to many women.
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