The Fr. Mike Schmitz Catholic Podcast How to Get Better Friends
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Oct 16, 2025 Fr. Mike Schmitz explores the concept of virtuous friendships and their vital role in our lives. He delves into Aristotle's three types of friendship: utility, pleasure, and virtue, highlighting their significance. Fr. Mike discusses the limitations of utility-based friendships and the joy of pleasant ones. He shares a personal story about his friendship with Nick, illustrating how it evolved into a virtuous bond through shared purpose. Ultimately, he emphasizes how virtuous friends inspire us to pursue greater goals together.
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Three Types Of Friendship
- Aristotle categorized three kinds of friendship: utility, pleasure, and virtue.
- Many modern friendships are useful or pleasant but lack the deeper virtuous dimension.
Look For Depth Not Just Company
- Notice whether your relationships are based on usefulness or enjoyment rather than depth.
- Seek at least one friendship that goes beyond function or fun to touch your heart.
Shared Pursuit Defines Virtue
- Virtuous friendship grows when shared pursuits and worldview outgrow mere utility or pleasure.
- The relationship centers on pursuing something bigger than both friends.
