Erin Davis, an advocate for boys' emotional growth, and Jason Davis, a seasoned parenting speaker, explore the lies boys often believe, like "loving God is for girls." They share their heartfelt journey of love and raise four boys while emphasizing the significance of truth and faith in parenting. Key topics include overcoming toxic masculinity, the power of apologies in fatherhood, and integrating scripture into daily life. The couple provides insightful strategies for navigating modern challenges and nurturing strong, faith-driven boys.
Boys must recognize and counter cultural lies about their identity to develop confidence and a strong sense of purpose.
Using storytelling as a teaching tool fosters engagement with biblical truths and helps boys connect their faith to everyday life.
Deep dives
The Importance of Absolute Truth
The need for boys to understand and believe in absolute truth is emphasized as critical for their development into strong men. The speakers argue that without this belief, boys risk becoming adrift in a culture that often promotes relativism. They reflect on their own upbringing, highlighting a stark contrast where truth was clearly defined as black and white, unlike the current narrative that morality and truth can be subjective. This fundamental belief in absolute truth is presented as essential for guiding young men toward a purposeful and principled life.
Addressing the Lies Boys Believe
The discussion centers on the various lies that boys encounter in today’s world, particularly the message that they are too young to make a difference or that being strong is toxic. The authors draw from personal experiences raising their four sons to express concern about the negative impacts these lies have on male identity and strength. They aim to confront these lies through their writings and resources, empowering boys to recognize their worth and the importance of their faith and convictions. This mission seeks to inspire a generation of boys who are grounded in truth and ready to counter cultural deceit.
The Role of Fiction in Engaging Boys
Choosing fiction as the format for their resource is highlighted as a strategic decision to capture boys' attention and effectively convey biblical truths. The authors note that stories can engage young minds more deeply than standard nonfiction methods, allowing complex ideas to resonate through relatable narratives. Their experiences with their own sons reveal a strong preference for adventurous stories over traditional informational texts, reflecting a belief that narrative can foster a lasting connection to spiritual principles. This approach aims to instill excitement about faith in boys, countering the misconception that following Jesus is mundane.
Integrating Scripture into Daily Life
The importance of weaving Scripture into everyday activity is discussed as a way to ensure that biblical principles are part of family life. The Davises emphasize that conversations about faith should arise spontaneously in the context of regular family interactions and chores, rather than through formalized study sessions. They share practical examples, such as using daily situations as teachable moments to reinforce the importance of God's guidance, while also creating a loving and scripturally grounded home environment. This strategy is founded on the belief that faith should permeate all aspects of life, making it more accessible and relatable for children.
If you’re raising a boy, you won’t want to miss this summer best-of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. Erin and Jason Davis will talk about the lies boys believe—such as, “Loving God is for girls,” and “I can’t control my temper.” Through storytelling and playful graphics, boys can learn to identify the lies and replace them with Truth. Don’t miss “Lies boys believe,” on Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman.