How to have Extraordinary Relationships S1 E12 - Jessica Yip
In conversation with Jessica Yip - from her website:
I always thought if I did things “right,” love would just happen like it seemed to for everyone else.
But underneath my material success, I was reliving all the toxic patterns that I was raised with:
— Hot/cold relationships,
— The inability to navigate conflict,
— Martyring my needs/desires/goals for those of others.
Even so, I was no stranger to self-development. A lifelong learner, do-er, and achiever — just like you — I read, listened to, and practiced it all. For years.
But the many tools I had weren’t the ones I needed to put a stop to this cycle of heartbreak.
Calling in “The One” finally broke the spell.
LOVE IS NO LONGER A MYSTERY, A STRUGGLE, OR A FANTASY.
When I tell you that I’m healthy, I mean that I feel confident and connected to myself in a way that I didn’t know was possible. All of my dreams — of being in love, of being an entrepreneur, of making a music album, of belonging to a community, of writing a book — have become a miraculous reality.
I coach because, despite all the ways we may have been actively and/or passively taught otherwise, everyone deserves to love and be loved. I coach because the joyful future you want is more than possible. It’s waiting for you, and I’m here to help you get there.
Key Points of the Episode:
· How she had a great life on paper but felt an aching incompleteness.
· How an on/off situationship she realised was not serving her.
· How she reclaimed her voice in every sense- the journey.
· The two incredible brothers she met that worked magic in he life.
· Her musical heroes journey.
· The unhealthy patterns and beliefs we carry and how to break them.
· How we find our voice in relationships.
· How we do not need anyone to be anything for us to be happy.
· How to cultivate generosity of spirit in relationships.
Reach out www.jessicayip.com
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