Ep. 235: Diane Manser — How to Make Peace with the Joys and Pains of Being a Teacher
Aug 21, 2024
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Diane Manser is a dedicated high school teacher and founder of Teaching is Emotional, focusing on the emotional challenges educators face. In this conversation, she shares her journey, the joys and struggles of teaching, and the emotional toll it can take. Diane emphasizes the importance of mindfulness and self-awareness, revealing how teaching acts as a powerful catalyst for personal growth. She also discusses managing student behavior and the need for a supportive community among teachers, which can help navigate the complexities of this rewarding yet challenging profession.
Teaching intertwines emotional challenges with delivery of content, often leading to feelings of frustration and disappointment among educators.
Embracing the difficulties of teaching encourages personal growth, enabling educators to navigate their emotional responses and develop coping strategies.
Deep dives
The Emotional Reality of Teaching
Teaching is not solely about delivering content; it is deeply intertwined with emotional challenges that can catch even seasoned educators off guard. The podcast emphasizes that many teachers enter the profession with a passion for teaching and idealistic views, only to find themselves unprepared for the emotional weight of the job. This disconnect often leads to feelings of frustration and disappointment, especially when classroom dynamics do not align with teachers' expectations. Recognizing and navigating these emotional hurdles is paramount for sustaining a long-term teaching career.
Personal Growth Through Challenges
Embracing the difficulties of teaching can lead to profound personal growth, with educators often finding that their experiences in the classroom reflect their internal struggles. The guest highlights how the act of teaching serves as a lens to understand one's emotional responses, such as the desire for approval and the fear of failure. By engaging in self-reflection and acknowledging these feelings, teachers can develop coping strategies to lighten the emotional load. This process of personal empowerment can transform challenges into opportunities for both professional and personal development.
Navigating Student Relationships
The complexity of student-teacher relationships presents unique challenges for educators, particularly when dealing with difficult or resistant students. The podcast discusses how teachers often experience feelings of inadequacy when students do not respond positively, which can trigger deeper emotional responses related to self-worth. Successful management of classroom dynamics is not about exerting control but rather fostering open communication and understanding. By adopting a mindful approach and reframing negative interactions, teachers can create a more collaborative and productive learning environment.
Building a Supportive Community
The podcast underscores the necessity of building a community among educators to discuss the emotional facets of teaching openly. While teachers often share personal frustrations with trusted colleagues, discussing the emotional dimensions of their work is less common. Creating spaces for these crucial conversations can validate teachers' experiences and encourage sharing of strategies for resilience and empowerment. Establishing such supportive networks can significantly enhance teachers' ability to navigate the emotional landscape of their profession, ultimately leading to greater job satisfaction.
The point at which my guest started to wonder what she had signed up for
Aspects of teaching that can lead to frustration and burnout
Some of the needs and expectations that teachers can bring to the classroom
Embracing organic developments while teaching
Teaching as a both/and experience that is both rewarding and challenging
Experiencing of meanness from students
The emotional elements of being a teacher
Learning to recognize the familiar reactions we have to certain types of people
How being a teacher can force a person to grow on a personal level
Diane Manser is a devoted high school English teacher in the Philadelphia suburbs, focusing most of her teaching career in the ninth grade.
She is the founder of Teaching is Emotional, which encourages educational leaders, current teachers, and emerging teachers to support teachers’ emotional strength as they navigate a challenging profession.
Diane loves to be the sunshine in people’s days and to find joy in the simplest of moments.
She relishes summertime at the beach, self-discovery podcasts and non-fiction books, TV watching with her husband, and playing with her kids.