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“Women keep meeting the same 5%” - Matthew Hussey on What Men Get Wrong In Dating

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Apr 5, 2024
Relationship and confidence coach, Matthew Hussey, discusses modern dating insights, key components of attraction, initiating conversations, trust issues, setting boundaries, overcoming insecurities, and the importance of self-love and raising standards in relationships.
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ANECDOTE

The Communication Bliss Point

  • Matthew Hussey explains the "bliss point" of communication as the perfect balance of sweet and salty in interactions.
  • This balance makes someone irresistible and keeps others wanting more without overwhelming them.
INSIGHT

Women Meet The Same 5% Men

  • Women tend to meet the same 5% of men repeatedly, limiting dating opportunities.
  • Many women wait to be approached rather than creating their own opportunities to meet new people.
ADVICE

Build Social Confidence Gradually

  • Start overcoming social fear by asking strangers simple questions like "What's a good restaurant nearby?".
  • Gradually ramp up to more personal interactions to build confidence and reduce rejection fear.
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