The Pursuit of Manliness 596: John Simons | The Man You're Meant To Be
Oct 21, 2025
In this engaging discussion, guest John Simons, a men's pastor and author, dives into themes from his book, advocating for authentic biblical manhood. He explores the impact of social media on male loneliness and the cultural confusion surrounding identity. John emphasizes the importance of mentorship and honest conversations in discipleship, revealing how past wounds can shape leadership. Listeners are encouraged to embrace genuine self-examination and discover their unique callings in a world full of imitation.
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Modern Idols Steer Men From God
- John Simons observes modern idols for men are influence and feeling important detached from God.
- He links these idols to men forming identity outside the church, producing spiritual drift.
Identity Crisis Needs Christ-Centered Formation
- Simons identifies an identity crisis: men fill meaning with external things instead of union with Jesus.
- He frames discipleship as surrendering spheres of life to Christ for true formation.
Shepherding Revealed Personal Wounds
- John shares that leading men's ministry exposed his own unresolved father wounds and suppressed struggles.
- He writes vulnerably to show he's walking the same journey as other men, not above them.
