Attaching to God: Neuroscience-informed Spiritual Formation 116 Neurodiversity and Attachment: Bridging the Gap (with Barbara Grant)
Jun 3, 2025
Barbara Grant, a specialist in autism and neurodiverse couples coaching, discusses how neurodiversity impacts relational attachments and spiritual practices. She explores the unique challenges and gifts that neurodivergent individuals face in their spiritual pursuits. The conversation highlights the importance of secure and insecure attachments, offering practical strategies for improving communication in relationships. Grant emphasizes tailored connections with God and shares insights on fostering love and understanding in neurodiverse contexts.
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Understanding Neurodivergence
- Neurodivergence includes various neurological differences like autism, ADHD, and dyslexia, affecting brain wiring and information processing.
- It's not a disorder but a God-given difference that brings unique strengths and challenges.
Neurodivergence Affects Social Bonding
- Neurodivergent individuals often process social cues differently, leading to rule-based, transactional thinking rather than relational connections.
- They see details clearly but may miss the broader social context, affecting attachment and interaction.
Structured Communication Helps Couples
- Use structured communication like active listening and breaking problems into clear parts to help neurodivergent couples communicate effectively.
- Provide time, structure, and allow written communication to support clarity and understanding in their interactions.