RISK! The Best of Queer Lives #3
Jun 5, 2025
Join Dan Savage, a syndicated advice columnist and host of the Savage Love podcast, as he shares a poignant story from 2014 titled 'The Stranger'. Comedian Marga Gomez brings humor to her tales of love, including a surprising relationship with a much younger woman. Hip-hop artist So Say The Elemental Wizard opens up about his experiences as a gay rapper in New York City, showcasing the intersection of identity and artistry. Each guest brings unique perspectives on love, intimacy, and the vibrant queer experience.
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Complexity of Sexual Identity
- Dan Savage felt ironically straight while having gay sex due to the partner's feminine appearance.
- Sexual identity and attraction can be complex and defy simple labels.
Revisiting Past Sexual Connections
- Dan Savage wishes to reconnect with a past sexual partner to understand their shared impact.
- Explosive early encounters shape identities and invite reflection years later.
Impact of Date and Place on Shows
- Performing on Father's Day in Boston, a seat of patriarchy, was tough and affected Marga Gomez's show.
- Timing and cultural context significantly impact audience reception and artist experience.