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20th Anniversary celebration with memoirists Elissa Altman, Thomas Page McBee, Ashley C. Ford, Josh Brolin, and Isaac Fitzgerald

Sep 29, 2025
In a heartfelt celebration, memoirists Elissa Altman, Thomas Page McBee, Ashley C. Ford, Josh Brolin, and Isaac Fitzgerald share their powerful stories. Altman recounts food-related family influences and her writing journey. McBee explores gender transition and healing through storytelling. Ford reflects on resilience shaped by family dynamics, while Brolin candidly discusses sobriety and navigating a chaotic upbringing. Fitzgerald unpacks the impact of relocation and parental struggles, offering insights into his complex childhood.
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ANECDOTE

Secret Father-Daughter Lunches

  • Elissa Altman recalls secret Manhattan lunches her father took her to while her mother was at the salon.
  • He would clean her clothes with a lint brush in the car so there'd be no evidence when they returned.
INSIGHT

Feeding As Creating Family Warmth

  • Altman links cooking and entertaining to creating the familial warmth she missed as a child.
  • Feeding others became her method to manufacture the joyful dinner table she never had.
ANECDOTE

Transition As An Ongoing Unfolding

  • Thomas Page McBee describes his transition as an unfolding, not a single epiphany.
  • He frames becoming a man as a process of claiming identity and learning to make it fit authentically.
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