From Barking Orders to Building Trust: Modern Fatherhood Redefined | Dad Edge WINSday Member Spotlight

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May 28, 2025

Explore the differences between ruling and leading in parenting. Discover how authoritarian methods can create rebellion, while a leadership approach fosters cooperation. Learn practical strategies for building trust through open communication and emotional intelligence. Hear real-life stories of dads who listen to their kids and model positive behavior. Understand the power of praising effort over mere achievements to cultivate resilience and a growth mindset. Embrace a nurturing style that empowers children and strengthens family bonds.

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Leadership Beyond Orders

Fatherly leadership should focus on clarity, empathy, and presence, not control or commands.
True leaders inspire and nurture rather than simply bark orders to their kids.

ANECDOTE

From Authoritarian to Collaborative

DC shared how switching from authoritarian to collaborative parenting improved his son's punctuality.
Giving kids ownership and understanding consequences encourages responsibility and cooperation.

ANECDOTE

Active Listening Builds Trust

Larry listened actively to his son's academic struggles without judgment or punishment.
This built trust and allowed his son to devise his own plan to catch up on assignments.

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Are You Leading Your Kids or Just Bossing Them Around? The Dad Edge Blueprint for True Leadership

Ever feel like you're constantly telling your kids what to do, but it's just not sticking? What if there's a more effective way to guide them, one that fosters trust and connection instead of resentment? Today, Larry Hagner dives deep into the heart of true fatherly leadership.

Drawing from powerful training and timeless wisdom shared within The Dad Edge Alliance, Larry unpacks the critical differences between authoritarian parenting (control and commands) and authoritative parenting (clarity, empathy, and presence). He shares real-life stories from dads who are transforming their families by actively listening to their kids, setting consistent boundaries with understanding, and, most importantly, modeling the very behaviors they want to see.

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In this essential episode, you'll learn:

The crucial distinction between "ruler" and "leader" in your parenting approach. Understand why authoritarian methods often breed rebellion, while authoritative leadership fosters respect and cooperation.
Practical strategies to cultivate deep trust with your children. Learn how open communication, honesty, and following through on promises create an unbreakable bond.
Why highlighting effort trumps mere achievement in building resilient and motivated kids. Discover how to praise perseverance and the learning process, fostering a growth mindset.
How to create a home environment where your children feel truly seen, heard, and safe. Explore the elements of a psychologically safe space where vulnerability is encouraged.
Actionable ways to disrupt the drift of autopilot parenting and become fully present with your kids. Understand the profound benefits of being engaged and attentive in everyday moments.

If you're ready to step into your greatest role as a father and lead your family with intention, passion, and purpose, this episode is packed with the gold you've been searching for.

This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community.