The Jordan Harbinger Show 758: David Buss | The Evolution of Desire
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Dec 1, 2022 David Buss, a leading expert in human mating strategies and a professor at the University of Texas at Austin, dives into the complexities of love and desire. He discusses the critical factors in selecting a long-term mate and the challenges educated women face in the dating landscape. The conversation highlights the impact of emotional stability, the dangers of narcissism, and the importance of positivity in relationships. Buss also shares insights on navigating modern romance, including how online dating influences mate selection.
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Mating Crisis Among Educated Women
- Educated women face a mating crisis due to a surplus of women in higher education.
- This leads to increased casual sex and dissatisfaction, especially among women.
Mate Value and Context
- In environments with more women, men's mate value increases, leading to more casual relationships.
- Women may compromise their preferences to secure a partner in such contexts.
Overcoming the Mating Crisis
- Women facing a mating crisis should consider changing their environment or broadening their mate criteria.
- Identify necessities versus luxuries in a partner and be willing to compromise.
