DA382 | Kids Takeover: Dessert Disasters, Sibling Squabbles, and Finding Joy in The Big Mess (Justin Whitmel Earley)

My Daughters took over the podcast this week!

 

Interviewing Justin Whitmel Early about his new KIDS BOOK - "The Big Mess"

➡️ Why finding God in family life means embracing the mess, not avoiding it

➡️ How to create intentional spaces where your older kids will actually talk to you

➡️ The simple prayer that can transform frustrating parenting moments

➡️ Why throwing food might be good for your family (seriously!)

This episode is filled with giggles, wisdom, and practical advice for dads navigating the beautiful chaos of family life.

FULL SHOW NOTES: https://www.dadawesome.org/blog/382

SUMMARY:

The Zaugg girls take over the podcast! In this special episode, Justin Whitmel Earley joins the four sisters to discuss his delightful new children's book, "The Big Mess." Discover why creating giant desserts (and sometimes destroying them) can teach profound lessons about forgiveness, sibling relationships, and finding God in the beautiful chaos of family life. Plus, hear why the girls are planning their own rooftop cookie adventure and how throwing pancakes across the kitchen can become a cherished family tradition.

TAKEAWAYS

• The best relationship-building moments with your children happen in the mess, not by avoiding or controlling it.
• As kids grow older, shift from structured rhythms to creating intentional spaces where deeper conversations can happen naturally.
• Relationship is built in shared activity—invite your children into your projects, even when it means things will take longer or be done imperfectly.
• A "pause prayer" before disciplining your children can transform how you respond to frustrating situations.
• The reconciliation between siblings can be generative, creating joy that extends beyond your family to bless your entire neighborhood.

GUEST

Justin Whitmel Earley is the bestselling author of "The Common Rule," "Habits of the Household," and "Mate." He's also the founder of The Hang Ten Movement, which encourages parents to wait until 10th grade before giving their children smartphones. Justin lives with his wife and four sons near Richmond, Virginia, where they enjoy building (and sometimes smashing) enormous desserts in their kitchen and driveway.

 

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• The Big Mess by Justin Whitmel Earley
• The Common Rule by Justin Whitmel Earley
• Habits of the Household by Justin Whitmel Earley
• Made For People by Justin Whitmel Earley
• The Hang Ten Movement