listening SUPERPOWER podcast The Fisherman's Path to Leadership: Lessons in Listening and Resilience with Oleg Konovalov
Do you find yourself struggling to navigate through the storms of life, both personally and professionally? It's easy to get lost amidst the distractions and challenges, leaving us feeling disconnected and unfulfilled. But there is a way to find clarity amidst the chaos: by listening to the voice of our own intuition and harnessing our inner strength to overcome any obstacle.
Dubbed "the da Vinci of Visionary Leadership" by many leading authorities of our time, Oleg Konovalov is the author of *The Fisherman's Path to Leadership*, *The Vision Code*, *LEADEROLOGY*, *CORPORATE SUPERPOWER*, *ORGANISATIONAL ANATOMY*, and *HIDDEN RUSSIA*. Oleg sees every organization as unique and strongly believes that most leadership problems can be solved by shifting patterned paradigms and applying tailor-made solutions. He is on the Thinkers50 Radar, was shortlisted for the Leadership Award at Thinkers50 2021, is among the Global Gurus Top 30 in Leadership, and is the #1 Global Leading Coach (Marshall Goldsmith Thinkers50).
In this episode, we explore the importance of creating value in business and how energy management often trumps time management. Oleg shares deep insights from his listening experiences and discusses the difference between inspiration and motivation. We also touch on 'cognitive distance' listening within parent-child dynamics, the concept of 'becoming the storm' to face challenges, and the distinction between wisdom and smartness. Join us as we journey through Oleg's wisdom, drawn from his book *The Fisherman's Path to Leadership*, and learn to celebrate moments of understanding and empowerment.
"You must listen to yourself first, not to your worries, but listen to your desires. Listen to what you can do. Listen to what you could reveal within your strengths, your superpower. Then you become stronger than this storm that you are facing now." - Oleg Konovalov
SUPERPOWER Notes:
00:44 - That moment he first noticed the power of listening: When you're trying to understand who you are, you are listening to yourself.
04:25 - How valuable is feedback: It's not about what they will get, it's about what they will hear; how they will listen.
09:02 - A simple approach in life and business that always works for Oleg: Business is about creating value, not solving problems.
11:14 - Deep insights from Oleg's listening experiences
15:48 - Why it is all about energy management and not time management
19:31 - Differentiating inspiration from motivation and getting people to listen to you
23:06 - Understanding 'cognitive distance' listening and tying it to a parent-child relationship
29:59 - What it means to be 'becoming the storm' and not just facing the storm: You are stronger than the challenges that you are facing.
34:37 - What differentiates being wise from being smart: Smartness is definitely not a superpower; wisdom is.
35:38 - Valuable nuggets from his book: The Fisherman's Path to Leadership
37:48 - Important questions to ask yourself and the cost of not listening well to yourself
43:10 - Celebrating significant moments of understanding and empowerment in life, regardless of specific dates or occasions.
45:23 - How we see each other's role means how we listen to each other
48:00 - Relevant question to ask of oneself: How to understand that you are really listening
50:20 - Deep thoughts on the idea of growth
Key Takeaways:
"If you are setting up a startup…the best way to find your best niche is to sit and listen to a market." - Oleg Konovalov
"You're learning to listen when you understand you know nothing." - Oleg Konovalov
"People that don't know where to go, they're not asking for feedback, they're already lost. But people who are clear where they want to be, they're asking for feedback and listening to it because it's very valuable for them." - Oleg Konovalov
"It's not a matter of how many things I could do, it's about how good I could do one or two things and putting all my effort, all my energy into it." - Oleg Konovalov
"If you are a source of energy, you're creating something tremendous, like a great vision, for business or personal life. And that vision inspires you in return and you inspire others." - Oleg Konovalov
"If a leader is a pretender, people feel that and they don't listen to him or their message." - Oleg Konovalov
"Don't listen to the threats; listen to your strengths." - Oleg Konovalov
"You are looking into what you can do, but the majority of people, unfortunately, are thinking about storms as an excuse not to do something." - Oleg Konovalov
"If I would love to be better as a personality, I must listen."- Oleg Konovalov
"Noise attracts attention, quiet voices open hearts. But you must be prepared for that quiet voice to listen to it." - Oleg Konovalov
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The Fisherman's Path to Leadership by Oleg Konovalov: https://www.olegkonovalov.com/author/
Connect with Oleg Konovalov:
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Website: http://olegkonovalov.com/
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