Depression in First Responders: Mental Health Crisis Among Police, Firefighters, and EMTs

First responders are trained to run toward danger while the rest of us run away. But the weight of constant trauma, danger, and stress takes a toll. In this episode, former sheriff’s deputy Monica Quesnell shares her powerful story of battling depression while serving in law enforcement.

We explore the staggering rates of suicide among first responders, the stigma that prevents many from seeking help, and why prioritizing mental health in these professions is literally a matter of life and death. Monica’s journey from despair to healing is an inspiring reminder that even the strongest among us need—and deserve—support.

This episode is for anyone who works in high-stress frontline roles—or loves someone who does. Together, we can fight stigma, build resilience, and create a culture where asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness.

Link to Monica Quesnell's website: http://bespokehappiness.com/

Primary Topics Covered:

• The impact of chronic stress and trauma on first responders’ mental health
• Alarming statistics on suicide and depression in law enforcement, firefighters, and EMTs
• Monica’s personal journey: depression, law enforcement work, and finding healing
• Why stigma keeps first responders from seeking mental health support
• Practical tools and coping strategies Monica used to reclaim her life
• The importance of awareness, peer support, and professional counseling

Episode Timestamps:

00:00 – Introduction to the episode
 01:01 – The link between chronic stress, trauma, and depression
 02:18 – First responders’ unique mental health challenges
 02:55 – Suicide rates among first responders
 03:42 – Introducing guest Monica Quesnell
 04:08 – Monica’s story: battling depression and finding purpose in law enforcement
 05:13 – Starting counseling and the emotional impact of the job
 06:57 – A traumatic case that shifted Monica’s perspective
 08:14 – Witnessing suicide on duty and its lasting impact
 09:43 – Choosing to leave law enforcement for her mental health
 10:40 – Healing through biking, gardening, painting, and reconnecting with loved ones
 12:27 – Coping strategies for “bad days” with depression
 13:01 – A 2,400-mile bike ride to raise awareness for first responder mental health
 13:57 – Monica’s advocacy work and Bespoke Happiness project
 16:39 – Closing reflections: breaking stigma and supporting those on the front lines

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